What if the wisdom that could heal you was already inside you - just waiting to be heard?
That’s the quiet but powerful question at the heart of Little Fag: A Journey of Self-Acceptance and Healing, the raw, courageous memoir by Thomas Kevin Dolan.
More than a coming-of-age story, this book is a coming-home journey—to truth, tenderness, and the unapologetic self. With unflinching honesty, Thomas shares what it means to grow up gay in a world that teaches you to hide, to shrink, to survive. From the ache of rejection to the balm of kindfulness, he explores the deeply human path of unlearning shame and remembering love.
Born from real struggle and shaped by sacred resilience, Little Fag is both deeply personal and universally resonant. It’s a memoir for anyone who’s ever felt like too much or not enough—and longed to make peace with all of it.
Since its release, Little Fag has touched thousands of hearts and was proudly listed as the #1 Gay Memoir on Amazon Canada.
About The Author
You might assume Thomas Kevin Dolan (he/him) is an extrovert—but he’s most at home in intimate, heart-centered conversation. A Master Professional Coach with nearly twenty years of experience, Thomas has built a life around healing, asking powerful questions, and helping others return to themselves.
His career spans executive coaching, creative strategy, leadership advising, and spiritual mentorship. Always guided by intuition, compassion, and a touch of mischief, Thomas is a quiet disruptor known for helping people access their truth.
Little Fag: A Journey of Self-Acceptance and Healing is his first book—an honest, unguarded reflection of the work he’s lived and taught. Becoming an author wasn’t planned, but it feels like a natural extension of everything he is.
Thomas lives between Honolulu and Vancouver, BC with his brilliant, gentle, and big-hearted husband. His eyes tell the truth, his voice carries it, and his heart is always on display. The rest? Subject to change.
- The Reverend Lauren K., Vancouver BC
Thomas Kevin Dolan’s Little Fag is a brave, vulnerable gift to the literary world- a much-needed balm for the soul. It tackles tough family truths with a mix of love, forgiveness, and the kind of wisdom you don’t always find at the family dinner table. This book will save lives, give broken hearts the permission to heal, and maybe even make you laugh along the way. - Alexandra M. Paproski, MA RCC Registered Psychotherapist