Little Fag: A Journey of Self-Acceptance and Healing

More than a coming-of-age story, this is a gay memoir about healing—a coming-home journey to truth, tenderness, and the unapologetic self. With unflinching honesty, Thomas Kevin Dolan, author and heart-centered coach, shares what it means to grow up gay in a world that teaches you to hide, to shrink, to survive.

This is How Healing Reads

As both an 2SLGBTQAI+ coming-of-age book and a work of queer literature on self-acceptance, Little Fag explores the deeply human path of unlearning shame, embracing love, and reclaiming joy. From the ache of rejection to the balm of kindfulness, every page invites readers to reflect on their own journey home to self as Thomas explores the deeply human path of unlearning shame and remembering love. 

Since its release, Little Fag has touched thousands of hearts and was proudly listed as the #1 Gay Memoir on Amazon Canada.

About The Author

You might assume Thomas Kevin Dolan (he/him) is an extrovert—but he’s most at home in intimate, heart-centered conversation. With nearly two decades of experience across creative strategy, leadership advising, and spiritual mentorship, Thomas has built a life around healing, truth-telling, and asking the kind of questions that change people.

He moves through the world guided by intuition, compassion, and a touch of mischief—a quiet disruptor who gently challenges norms and invites people to come home to themselves.

Thomas splits his time between Honolulu and Vancouver, BC with his brilliant, big-hearted husband. His eyes tell the truth, his voice carries it, and his heart is always on display. The rest? Subject to change.

Echoes of Impact

The ripple of healing doesn’t end with one person—it echoes through families, communities, and generations. These voices carry that resonance.